Why You Should Not to Be Afraid of Tears
FEELINGS

Why You Should Not to Be Afraid of Tears

ByElizabeth Stoian

Tears are the physical expression of emotion, much like goosebumps, arousal and that extra energy that makes you jump up and down when you are super excited!! Tears can happen when you are happy and when you are sad. They come and they go with the emotion.
For some reason, in today’s society, we have come to be uncomfrotable with experiencing our own tears and seeing someone else in tears. How many people apologise for crying? Would you apologise for having goosebumps? Or being happy? What’s worse, we are taught that crying makes us weak and that we need to “toughen up”.

PAIN POINTS- How to Recognize Them and What to Do About Them
FEELINGS

PAIN POINTS- How to Recognize Them and What to Do About Them

ByElizabeth Stoian

I don’t like your Blue and Russet striped hair or your dragon tail. Did I hurt your feelings? No? Why, coz you don’t have Blue and Russet striped hair or a dragon tail? (I apologise if you do). So what I say has no power over you when you know what I’m saying is my opinion and it has nothing to do with you.
What if I called you Fat? Or ugly? Or Old? Or Stupid? Or a Loser? Or Good for Nothing? Or Annoying? Or Needy? Any of them push a button? Hopefully not, but if you are like like most people- meaning human, lol- chances are someone called you something that hurt you at some point in your life.