I don’t want to deal with my Bad Side… Why ignoring it is keeping you from Progressing
FEELINGS

I don’t want to deal with my Bad Side… Why ignoring it is keeping you from Progressing

ByElizabeth Stoian

f you are here, chances are that you are looking to be your best. In our pursuit to be “good”, it’s very tempting to deny, ignore, dissociate , hate, judge, be embarrassed by our… “Bad Side”. By focusing only on the positive, we limit our potential for progress. Denying it is not the way to make it go away. In fact, without it, we would not have the opportunity to grow. Hating it only leads to hating ourselves.

WHO are YOU to be WORTHY of LOVE, HEALTH, FUN and MONEY?
FEELINGS

WHO are YOU to be WORTHY of LOVE, HEALTH, FUN and MONEY?

ByElizabeth Stoian

You are POWERFUL.
You are BEAUTIFUL.
You are USEFUL.
You are MANY THINGS.
NOW
ALWAYS.
At all the points in your DEVELOPMENT.
Not ONE DAY “when”… you do or don’t do x
,… become y,
or… z happens.
Not “if”, not “when”.
NOW.
Unconditional of your situation, your “shortcomings” or other people’s opinions of you: who you should be or what you should do.
YOU. HAVE. POWER. NOW.
YOU . ARE. BEAUTIFUL. NOW.
YOU. ARE USEFUL. NOW.
Even if you don’t feel it, know it, believe it, own up to it or use it.
I need you to know that.
You need to know that.
The world needs you to know that.
Here is why:

PAIN POINTS- How to Recognize Them and What to Do About Them
FEELINGS

PAIN POINTS- How to Recognize Them and What to Do About Them

ByElizabeth Stoian

I don’t like your Blue and Russet striped hair or your dragon tail. Did I hurt your feelings? No? Why, coz you don’t have Blue and Russet striped hair or a dragon tail? (I apologise if you do). So what I say has no power over you when you know what I’m saying is my opinion and it has nothing to do with you.
What if I called you Fat? Or ugly? Or Old? Or Stupid? Or a Loser? Or Good for Nothing? Or Annoying? Or Needy? Any of them push a button? Hopefully not, but if you are like like most people- meaning human, lol- chances are someone called you something that hurt you at some point in your life.