Trust is arguably a very challenging thing for a lot of people. Surrendering requires Trust. That is a risk many avoid taking based on Limiting Beliefs they picked up in the past that made them attempt to put up a shield to block All Situations that may trigger a Pain Point. In the Process of doing so, one also blocks pleasant situations.
In Power vs Force, Dr David R. Hawkins M.D. Ph.D. calibrated the Vibration Values of Different Feelings through the process of Kinesiology- Muscle Testing. For example, he uncovered that Shame/ Humiliation have the low vibration is 20, while Neutrality/ Trust rank as 250 and Love/ Reverence register at 500. Enlightenment/ Pure Consciousness occur in the 700- 1,000 range. If you want to know the values of more feelings, they are outlined in the book (fascinating read). 🙂