You are POWERFUL.
You are BEAUTIFUL.
You are USEFUL.
You are MANY THINGS.
At all the points in your DEVELOPMENT.
Not ONE DAY “when”… you do or don’t do x
,… become y,
or… z happens.
Not “if”, not “when”.
Unconditional of your situation, your “shortcomings” or other people’s opinions of you: who you should be or what you should do.
YOU HAVE POWER NOW.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL NOW.
YOU ARE USEFUL NOW.
Even if you don’t feel it, know it, believe it, own up to it, or use it.
I need you to know that.
You need to know that.
The world needs you to know that.
Here is why:
I’ve seen people’s beauty (yes, we are all beautiful miracles) my entire life and as someone with empathtic abilities for longer than I can remember, it’s always been my use to others to hold space, validate and support them by being who they needed me to be at the time- to the best of my abilities. (I will write about my journey as an empath separately- let me know if that is of interest) Even when I wasn’t aware of doing it Consciously, feeling what other people were feeling, particularly what those close to me were feeling has had its challenges. Bottom line, I’ve naturally been the one to want to “kiss the booboos” and when that wasn’t enough… let’s just say it wasn’t easy.
The truth is, I – or anyone else- cannot make you happy, confident, self acceptant, powerful, or whole. Someone can HOLD SPACE FOR YOU, be COMPASSIONATE, be PRESENT with you, but THEY CANNOT BE ALL YOU CAN BE …for YOU. YOU however CAN. It’s why I’m telling you. Stepping into who you are is up to YOU. It’s not someone else’s job even if they wish they could do it for you. It’s just not how it works. You also don’t need their permission to do so, since it’s not up to them to make that decision for you. It’s yours. Your development is YOURS. I’ve learned to hold space for people to be who they are at the time and only hold a vision of my best wishes for them without the expectation of them to meet it because it isn’t up to me who and when they choose to be. With that being said, is there anything better than witnessing progress as an empath? 🙂 We feel what you feel 🙂
How many of us “act out” with those around us to test them to see if they love us at our worst (not just when things are smiley, which is easy to love) and to test ourselves if we are… worthy of (unconditional) love (Truthfully, “true” love is only unconditional, but many things can be confused with “love” -that’s pondering for another time though- coming soon)… because we’ve bought into the idea that our Worthiness is someone else’s decision and not our own.
How many of us are afraid of being our full selves in another person’s presence? (this is especially reinforced in work environments where we are EXPECTED to fill the template of what that job describes as the “ideal”). How many of us are afraid to get “too close” to someone and we either push them away or run away ourselves for fear of accepting that we are vulnerable in that particular snapshot of our development? How many of us are afraid of not being “nice” because we fear if we aren’t, we don’t DESERVE to be loved or to be compensated (financially as well, which is why often, not always, love and money struggles are parallel as they relate to Worthiness issues, Self Acceptance, and Self Love)?
Just the idea of owning up to your Self Worth, and ALL of you: the good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful, the broken, the strong, the weak, the sexy, the shy, the emotional, the scared, the stupid, the smart, the unreasonable, etc.. all of you will make some of you uncomfortable just reading this. Observe this Pain Point. Are you willing to keep feeling it? If you were to take a guess, would your life be better or worse if you owned up to your worth and all YOU CAN BE? How would it benefit those around you if you showed up fully? How would the world be changed? (nobody is too small to make a difference. Are you making it on purpose?) YOU NEED TO OWN OUR OWN POWER. Only you can make the best use of it. Only you know how. And you do. It’s all inside of you ready to be accessed.
I’m not saying it’s easy.. I’ve fought for people to be fully who they were in my own way, my entire life… without being able to be fully who I WAS… (I’ve only embraced myself and made a real shift at the SUBCONSCIOUS level recently- like, really recently, this past week to be exact, yes, it took me until almost 38 years old, which is why I now have the courage to speak about this sensitive topic- ask me about Dr. Bruce Lipton’s PSYCH-K® method that shifted this for me if you want to know more)… so I understand. There are risks to being YOU AND ALL THAT YOU ARE. Others can be threatened. And their insecurity is on them, but it’s easy to think it’s our issue. (I’m not saying it’s OK to hurt people, especially on purpose. I will be writing about self-care vs selfishness) Here’s the thing though: You’re not doing them, you or anyone else any service by living in hiding, at a fraction of your own potential or contracted in any way. You cannot be unhappy/ sad/ poor/ sick etc enough to make someone else happy/ cheerful/ rich/ healthy etc enough. You can only be the best person you can be at the time and be there for them. This lights up the way and raises not only the quality of your existence, your vibration, but also theirs and that of Oneness/ Source/ Life Force/ Divine Power/ God. Growth/ Progress is the reason for Living.
I and You are a WORK IN PROGRESS with all its CELEBRATIONS, GAPS, TRIALS and ERRORS.
I and You are POWERFUL.
I and You are BEAUTIFUL.
I and You are USEFUL.
I and YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE
Just for BEING ME and YOU.
I and You don’t have to earn it.
I and You don’t have to prove it.
LOVE IS WHAT I and YOU ARE MADE OF AND LOVE is MY and YOUR DIVINE RIGHT
I and You are Oneness/ Source/ Life Force/ Divine Power/ God
Will you INTEGRATE all of YOU and LOVE ALL THAT YOU ARE, lights AND shadows?
Will you LIVE WITH INTEGRITY?
I’m here to hold space for you…, to listen…, to share what’s worked for me,… to be ALL OF ME (“qualities” and “flaws” and all 😉 )